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Midlife crisis:She at 20s and He at 40s

June 30, 2008

So yes yes yes..I’ve started job hunting….. ….I AM trying so hard to shoot at  the rite spot……but still …Mamma says u r not shooting the rite target…as she wants me to focus on a rabbit/squirrel…but what to do…. my target is a definite lion..

the job of my dreams…screw the dream…this job will definitely give me a heavy wallet…Since I am  deviating from my title..let me tell u..I am facing a midlife crisis…don’t wonder I am just 27….and midlife crisis so early….yup….since my eva is 1year and 9 mths..she’and will  be joining play school soon, .I started my job hunt.

As soon a consultant look my profile the first question is

 1 ]when did u pass out..?

2]  what ‘s ur experience?

And then comes the obvious question …

 

3] what were u doing for past two years..?

My ans:I was taking care of my child….

 

????????????

then….

4] can u join back..u have a child….he looks as if it’s the biggest mistake

I don’t know from his look whether its having the child or leaving the child at playschool ..which gives the ????????????  look…Some even want to know the play school time….!!!!!

 

Well…does he ask the same question to a 27 year old male [Read married]…Men never take maternity break…oops I forgot !!

 

So this is the reason why women reach midlife crisis at 20s and men at 40s[reason unknown].

U have changed…..do I?

April 26, 2008

Here I am back home [home sweet home]after two months and 20 days vaccation in US…enjoying being busy ..and fighting jet lag…Everything was going fine, then we[me,my hubby]heard the expected underestimated statement “U HAVE CHANGED”.2 months and 20 days vaccation..can that change any one.?..No country can do that much magic…here I was back with the statement “grass is greener on this side”…but may be that is  not what anyone expected…they expect us to change…go ga ga over US…Sorry that we couldnot meet ur expectations…and not changed !!!! still labelled U have changed…

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March 17, 2008

So…today ‘s Palm sunday…My first ever palm sunday in US..unfortunately we reached late at the church..A friendly smiling face guided us to the stairs and told us to take the seats upstairs…what he meant is…’.U latecomers ,dont try to take the front seat and disturb the whole church..!!!!! ”  So I missed the palm leaf distribution….[is there any technical name  for tht ceremony..? ]I missed my chance of getting the leaf ..that too in US..!!!!big deal…. it’s a big deal for me …as I had many questions waiting for answers…

 Some of my questions were answered which are AS FOllOWS:

1]Physiology of Palm leaf?

palm leaf looked same as what we see in trichur.,aluva,bangalore..so…no more questions regarding the “Physiology of Palm leaf” in US…screw my Botany classses…

2]What do people do with it during the mass?

even in this high tech country, people do the same art works with their palm leaf’s during the mass..Ola medayal….ola madakkal….kurishundakkal [sorry for poor english vocabulary]…and poking other’s face….or the leaves resting on the bench…so that doubt too cleared…

3]whether I have chance to get one ?yup… the palm leaf….come on guys…its human……… when u cant ..u wish more…and its free…!!!

there comes the third ans:In US too, people dont forget to take their leaves back home…

I felt very bad…But I trusted my core instinct[thanx to Martha Beck]….I came down the stairs….there on the bench there’s a Bundle of Palm leaves….I’ve never ever felt this much excitement and happiness to get a palm leaf  in my life …